Q&A: Ignore the Haters? No, I Keep an Eye on Them
"Ignore the haters" is often touted as sound advice, but for marginalized individuals, it's not that simple. This piece delves into the realities of facing discrimination and why staying vigilant is crucial for survival.
We’re Queer, We’re Here—And We’ve Always Been Here
Queer identities have existed across religious, scientific, and cultural contexts throughout history. This article explores the enduring presence and recognition of queer individuals in various societies.
The Flawed Lesson of Sameness
The notion that "we're all the same" can inadvertently erase individual experiences and identities. This discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging and celebrating our differences to foster genuine belonging.
The Day My Mom Pulled the Ultimate Popple Betrayal
Childhood memories often come with unexpected lessons. This personal story recounts a young obsession with Popples and a mother's surprising twist, offering insights into expectations and understanding.
Never Trust Anyone Who Says, “Don’t Tell Your Parents”
Trust and transparency are foundational in relationships with children. This piece emphasizes the importance of open communication and the dangers of secrecy imposed by adults.
Can You Define “Woman”? Let’s Try.
The definition of "woman" varies across cultures and contexts. This article explores the complexities and nuances of gender identity, challenging simplistic notions.
Kids Understand More Than You Think
Children often grasp concepts of identity and acceptance more readily than adults. This discussion sheds light on the intuitive understanding kids have about diversity and inclusion.
What Teachers Really Do: Lessons in Kindness, Dignity, and Empathy
Educators play pivotal roles beyond academics. This piece highlights the profound impact teachers have in imparting values of kindness, dignity, and empathy to their students.
Carbon Hating: The Flawed Science of “They’ll Dig You Up and Know”
Arguments using skeletal remains to define gender are scientifically unfounded. This article debunks such claims and emphasizes the importance of understanding gender beyond bones.
We Didn’t Steal the Rainbow—You Stole It From Us
The rainbow flag is a symbol of pride and identity for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. This piece addresses misconceptions about its origins and significance.
Why There’s No “Straight Pride” Flag—And Why the Pride Flag Matters
The Pride flag represents the struggles and victories of the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. This article explains its importance and why a "Straight Pride" flag is unnecessary.
Bathroom Bans Won’t Just Hurt Trans People—They’ll Hurt You Too
Legislation targeting bathroom access affects more than just the trans community. This discussion explores the broader implications of such bans on society.
Q&A: How I Deal with Negativity - Purpose, Boundaries, and Confidence
Navigating negativity requires intentional strategies. This piece shares personal approaches to maintaining well-being amidst criticism and adversity.
The Closet: A Place of Shame or Safety? The History of “Coming Out”
Even today, people throw around the phrase “go back in the closet” as an insult. The implication is clear: queerness should be hidden, erased, or silenced. It’s rooted in the belief that being 2SLGBTQIA+ is something shameful.
Is “Queer” a Slur? A Look at Its History and Reclamation
The word “queer” has a complicated history, once used as a slur but now reclaimed by many in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. For some, it’s a powerful, inclusive identity; for others, it still carries pain. This article explores its evolution and what it means today.
Pride vs. Safety: The Reality of Navigating the World as a Queer Person
For many queer individuals, daily life involves a constant assessment of safety versus authenticity. This article delves into personal experiences highlighting the difficult choices between expressing one's true self and ensuring personal safety in environments that may not be accepting.
Sex Education, Catholic School, and the Fear of Teaching 2SLGBTQIA+ Families
Many Catholic schools avoid teaching about 2SLGBTQIA+ families, reinforcing exclusion rather than acceptance. This piece explores the fear behind this omission and why representation in education matters for every child.
The Harmful Deception Trope: Why Mrs. Doubtfire and Bugs Bunny Aren’t Drag
Trans women are often misrepresented as "men in disguise," a harmful stereotype rooted in outdated Hollywood tropes.This misconception fuels discrimination and misunderstanding. Let's explore how these portrayals have shaped public perception and why it's crucial to challenge them.
Q&A: Supporting Your Trans Child: A Guide for Parents
Supporting a transgender child can be challenging, even for the most loving parents. If your child feels unsupported despite your best efforts, you're not alone. This guide offers practical advice on how to navigate this journey and ensure your child feels truly accepted.
Apples, Oranges, and the Trans Umbrella: Understanding Transgender and Non-Binary Identities
Understanding the spectrum of gender identities is essential for inclusivity. This piece clarifies distinctions and overlaps within the trans and non-binary communities.